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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-18 02:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3027 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3027 ⌋

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Re: Sad but true

(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not as simple as that, Just by bringing it up it's a form of pressure.

Re: Sad but true

(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
nowhere did OP say their boyfriend randomly informed them their hair is disgusting

maybe they were doing something, her hair got in his face somehow, he backed off, she asked what's wrong, and he admitted it's a turn off

but yes, let's keep making the bf the cackling bond villain who manipulates poor women into shaving their pits

Re: Sad but true

(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)
People have preferences. Just like how someone might prefer blondes but fall in love with a brunette.

He may prefer no armpit hair, but not ask her to shave hers.

Re: Sad but true

(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Bringing it up is a form of communication. No more, no less.

Re: Sad but true

(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Healthy relationship:

BF: Hey, I'd like if you do X.
You: No, I don't really want to.
BF: Okay, if you don't want to do it, I'm fine with it.

Non healthy relationship:

BF: Hey, I'd like if you do X.
You: No, I don't really want to.
BF: I want you to do it. Do it. Do it. Do it. Do it.


If you can't even discuss things with your partner, you're doing it wrong.