ext_82219 ([identity profile] shahni.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-01-16 01:25 am

[ SECRET POST #375 ]


⌈ Secret Post #375 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

I lost the game. ):
- NAME THE FANDOM, first comment!!

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 150 secrets from Secret Submission Post #054.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, 0 not!fandom, 0 too big.
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[identity profile] ran-mouri82.livejournal.com 2008-01-16 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
2) One can't even begin to treat your suffering with fairness, but all I can venture to say is that a person's sense of mercy is tested most in the face of such violent injustices. Please try to hang on. My guess is that Light's name is completely ironic.

3) Wow. Your friendship already hit the skids before the cosplaying, I take it?

9) It's a tough call. Those two have a fair distance to go before they can really see eye to eye anyway, so . . . unless their characters mature in a way that makes their pairing more plausible, I'd rest assured the "open-ended" result might just happen in the manga.

10) Three words: Best Secret Ever. XD

30) Poor dear. It just goes to show that our bodies were made a certain way for a purpose. We can easily fantasize away the truth until reality hits us with a 2x4. Stay strong!

35) DITTO. Those two have life crapping on them every two seconds. In their world, even God is kinda mean! Someone needs to give them a break! >.<

36) The driving force behind those smut fics is lust, not love. I know you said such fics didn't raise your expectations of sex, but I'm just tossing that out there.

50) The Swan Princess--FTW! ^^ Still, er, need to see it . . . .

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(Anonymous) 2008-01-16 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
I was waiting for someone to come with the "not what nature intended" argument. Do you feel the same way about men who perform the act? *sigh* The OP got hurt because she 1) had anal with someone who obviously had never performed it before and learned how to do it from pornos where the guy just shoves it in and b) was silly enough to do something like that for the sake of her writing when it's not even necessary.

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(Anonymous) 2008-01-16 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I was waiting for that one, too.

So is oral sex "not what nature intended," too? It's not procreative, which is what the "what nature intended" argument usually boils down to. How about masturbation?

There's a lot of stuff humans do that isn't "what nature intended." Taking antibiotics instead of dying from bacterial infections isn't "what nature intended." Eating industrial foodstuffs full of refined sugars isn't "what nature intended." Heart bypass surgery? Boob implants? Artificial hips? Epidurals during labor? In-vitro fertilization? Fertility drugs? Birth control? Blood transfusions? Not at all "what nature intended."

By comparison to all of those things, allowing someone to insert a (well-lubricated) penis or dildo into your (willing and well-prepared) asshole seems pretty damned natural.

Even if the OP's BF tried to be careful, firstime!anal is often awkward and painful. Then again, so is firstime!vaginal sex for most women--does that make it "what nature intended?" No, I didn't think so...

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[identity profile] ran-mouri82.livejournal.com 2008-01-17 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Huh? The response I made to that person's secret was not an argument, as if this was some kind of debate. I was simply commenting out of sadness for what she didn't have to go through.

Do you think our bodies were made to do that? With all due respect, the answer should be obvious.

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[identity profile] lanjelin.livejournal.com 2008-01-24 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
Well, technically our bodies were made to sit in trees and eat fruit all day...

Really, if you do it right, anal sex really doesn't hurt. The need for preparation differs between people (from minutes to weeks, from what I've seen), but the same is true for vaginal sex, which also can be extremely painful if you do it wrong.

(I'm not the anon above BTW.)