I feel like that actually others people with disabilities more than anything, or just reduces them to a set of traits. Like you've taken a complex person and made that one part of them so much a part of who they are that you can insult them just by possibly accidentally referencing that one part, even if the thing you're referencing can be something else, too.

I dunno, I don't think I'm explaining This very well. There's just something really off to me about this