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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-22 04:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #3031 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3031 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-04-22 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I never knew I had a sadistic streak until finding slash.

I used to HATE reading het because of all the non con and general awfulness (violence against women etc). It was so weird to me because on some level, I enjoyed the idea of BDSM, but I've never read a story where a MAN was on the receiving side but then I discovered slash and everything fell into place >:)



(Anonymous) 2015-04-22 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Your moral objections only go one way, huh?

(Anonymous) 2015-04-22 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not a big deal that het features non con and such because I'm sure some people enjoy imagining themselves in such situations but for me (a dom) such a scenario is unbearable.

When I said 'awfulness' I meant awful in term of taste, not morality.

It's just that in my day, no woman was ever a dom in het books and it freaked me out because I began to wonder- Is this the only way I'm allowed to have sex?

It frightened me. I don't enjoy bottoming and yet the porn of that time would insist I must. So to me, that was pretty damn awful.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-23 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

Ah, okay, thanks for clarifying. That makes more sense.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-23 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
This is pretty much how it went for me. I don't identify as a bottom, yet it's constantly reinforced in porn and society in general that women are all submissive or should want to be subs and that bothers me greatly. Until femdom het becomes more acceptable or even acknowledged, I'm more than happy to settle with slash for my daily dose of submissive men.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-23 07:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Me, too.

I can't even find good femdom porn most of the time... it's all for submissive men, and the camera is focussed on her the whole time. I want to see some dick! And so gay porn is the only option.