[ SECRET POST #3031 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #3031 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

So next time someone post a comment here saying that they are thinking of killing themselves, we should ignore them! Great idea.

Mental illness definitely needs to be addressed more in our society, instead of being ignored or pushed aside until the person has a mental breakdown.

[(Anonymous)]

those are hugely incomparable situations, for very obvious reasons. for instance, not being in a position of clear and present danger to oneself or others is a big difference.

i would also say that your attitude and posts make it impossible to believe that you're doing this out of some sincere sense of compassion. you're doing this to be a bully, and it's not on. stop being an ass, whatever you think of the person in question.

[(Anonymous)]

That's someone reaching out for help. It's a completely different ball of wax.

[(Anonymous)]

You honestly think stalking someone and aggressively accusing them of lying is helping?

[kallanda_lee]

Only, those are two totally different things.

DID is a coping mechanism for trauma, among other things, and does not put someone in direct danger.

Someone who is about to kill themselves is in acute danger, so yeah, I would try to talk them down from it.

I would not forcibly try to take away someone's trauma mechanisms, even if they are maladaptive.

Mental illness does not to be addressed more - but not by random anons on the internet who are about as qualified to comment on it as they are about nuclear fission.

[lb_lee]

Actually, my dear stalker is lying again. Among the things they did was send me comments claiming to be Sneak and Miranda, asking me to do things. Which, you know, would TOTALLY be "encouraging my delusions," and NOT in a helpful way.

But I'm sure that's totally the same as trying to help me when I'm suicidal. We should give the dear a medal for therapeutic genius.

--Rogan

[kallanda_lee]

Sorry, lb, that's awful :(

[lb_lee]

Yeah. I've been trying to stay out of this thread for obvious reasons, but I still have emails showing some of those comments before Case deleted them. They are NOT trying to help me.

If I want help, I go to my healthcare team, or my offline friends. I would NOT be on F!S. It'd be like asking my neighbor for their garden hose when my house was on fire. (And anyway, when we're in that bad a state, we babble word salad, so we couldn't request help anyway.)

--Rogan

[kallanda_lee]

Yeah, I get that - because that's the sensible thing. I mean people online can give advice when asked, but the sensible thing is to go to your actual support network when you need to. From what I've seen you say here, it seems like you have your stuff figured out.

[diet_poison]

wait, is this person talking about YOU?!?!?!?

what?

holy shit :(

[lb_lee]

Yup! I figured the DID was a dead giveaway.

--Rogan

[diet_poison]

The DID made me suspicious, but I wasn't sure. Is there a particular conversation this traces back to?

Also, this anon is gross. Do you get this shit a lot? :/

[lb_lee]

Nah. This anon is just a douche. They made a thread mocking us for tagging our comments, and then when they realized it was because we were multi got weirdly fixated on us and trying to drive us out, claiming nobody believes our "lies" and shit like that. Case started deleting all their douchey comments, which as you can see honked them off and made them start playing martyr.

As for whether I get this shit a lot... enh. Mostly from ex-friends and family. I pretty much assume that anytime I join a public online space (and possibly offline as well) there will be a contingent of assholes furious that I'm existing at them. It's just better for me healthwise that way, because it means I don't comment unless I'm ready for them.

--Rogan

[diet_poison]

This is why Case rocks.

Sounds like you have a healthy approach. Good for you :)

[lb_lee]

Yeah, I've been really impressed by Case's conduct through this. I'm honestly not used to mods DOING things, never mind so quickly and under their own steam. But then again, he's been modding this place for ages; he most know the ebb and flow here.

--Rogan

[diet_poison]

I honestly think your behavior is more likely to CAUSE a mental breakdown than prevent one.