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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-25 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #3034 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3034 ⌋

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Re: Is there any effective way to stop bullying?

(Anonymous) 2015-04-26 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
A good start would be actually listening to and protecting children who are bullied. I went years thinking that what I went through wasn't that bad and that I deserved it, because the authorities at my school pretty much told me to suck it up and to change my behavior if I was that worried about being bullied. To this day I have OCD issues about being abusive or a bully due to everyone saying that I must be doing something to escalate the situation or egg them on, or that I was otherwise giving as good as I got.

Punishing my bullies wouldn't have made them stop, but their actions would have been less damaging if I'd known that it wasn't okay for people to treat me that way and that it wasn't my fault. Sometimes reducing damage is all you can do.