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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-28 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #3037 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3037 ⌋

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tw: sexual assault

(Anonymous) 2015-04-29 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
Told my father not to tell my sister I'd been attacked because she was in the middle of having a baby and I didn't want her to be stressed out or worry about me. Almost a year later, I find out that he couldn't handle that and told her because he thought she could look out for me better (she loves closer to me than he does).

So the entire time, not only did she know and stress out, but as time went on she got gradually annoyed with me because she thought the reason I hadn't told her was that I didn't TRUST her - she'd been giving me hints that I could 'talk to her' if anything was bothering me - but (since I had no way of knowing she knew about the assault) I thought she meant about college and work so just brushed that off with "everything's fine". There I am thinking how everything's safely handled and whatnot, and there she is thinking "omg, my sister must be so traumatized by what happened that she can't even talk about it with me!"

It's been years, but I'm still grumpy about this from time to time to the point that thinking about that upsets me more than thinking about the attack.