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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-29 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3038 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3038 ⌋

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Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
NO

Fuck you, this is bullshit. "It's a joke" is not an excuse to choke people. If someone assaults you physically, then calling the police is an appropriate reaction.

If the man thinks its okay to choke people as a joke, then he needs to learn that it's not okay. If that means getting the police called on him, than that's what it means. The world is not going to stop and coddle you for having a fucked up sense what's okay.

In the real world if you assault someone physically they will call the police, even if you say its a joke.

Actions have consequences.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Touching someone is not assault, no matter how many delicate flowers want to say it is, and OP's story is not a convincing one. "He choked me! In class!" is not believable. What is believable? OP lost her shit at something innocuous.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
This is not tapping someone on the shoulder, and you don't have to be a delicate flower to think that even pretending to choke someone is NOT innocuous.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
You're still fucked up.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
No, you know what's believable? You are a MRA mansplaning, victim blaming, troll shit lord who's trying to make OP feel bad so she won't go after this douche of a professor.

The very definition of assault is a physical assault. Physical assault is defined as intentionally or knowingly causes physical contact with another and a reasonable person would regard the contact as extremely offensive or provocative. In Kansas the law on assault states: Assault. Assault is intentionally placing another person in reasonable apprehension of immediate bodily harm.

OP was alarmed at the physical assault from the professor, and took the correct measures. Even if it was joking he did not have the right to touch OP in such a way, and especially not to mock such a violent acct.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, placing your hands around someone's neck is innocuous.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
For fucks sake, have you never seen that gesture used among people who are friendly? Sounds like the prof misinterpreted their relationship. The horror.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
DOES NOT FUCKING MATTER. Op didn't want it, so it was out of line. Professors shouldn't run around and touch students. Also friendly is friends. Jesus, what's so hard to understand about that concept?

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
yep and I hope his unprofessional ass is fired for it

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 04:22 am (UTC)(link)
OP

We were not friends. We were not "friendly". We had a student-teacher relationship. He never touched me before the incident of putting his hands around my neck.

(frozen comment) Re: What a terrible last day.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
FYI, friends/family choking each other as a joke is most often seen in cartoons with slapstick. It's not something common in real life.