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fandomsecrets2015-05-07 06:51 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-05-07 06:51 pm
[ SECRET POST #3046 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3046 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Beyonce Knowles]
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[Blake's 7]
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[Spec Ops: The Line]
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[Cell Block Tango]
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[Mortal Kombat]
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[Captain America/Kingsman: The Secret Service]
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[Blake's 7/"Orbit"]
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[Henry V]
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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 014 secrets from Secret Submission Post #435.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2015-05-08 07:07 am (UTC)(link)When we were dating, my husband was always very gentle and understanding with the issues I brought to the relationship from a troubled, abusive childhood. I was determined that our relationship would be healthy and I wouldn't let myself back down constantly and be walked on like my dad did, so I would force myself to bring up anything I had an issue with that my then-boyfriend did (if it was actually important, you know).
I would feel literally sick, so scared deep down of his reaction, so expecting the abuse of my father for DARING to point out a flaw, maybe something he'd said that came across as hurtful, something along those lines.
His response was always "I didn't realize, I'm sorry, this is what I meant..." And then ACTUALLY NOT DOING IT AGAIN. <3 <3 <3
And one time, he absolutely floored me when he said, "Thank you." I stared at him a moment before saying, "For what?" He took my hand and looked me in the eye and sincerely said, "For helping me become a better man."
<3 <3 <3
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(Anonymous) 2015-05-10 02:10 am (UTC)(link)It fucking sucks when you've had a pretty painful past and it's interfered with your ability to form healthy meaningful relationships (of any kind) with others. You are brave for asserting yourself and your husband is awesome for being so understanding. Seconding what anon said above, hope you guys have a long, happy life together.