[ SECRET POST #3056 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

[(Anonymous)]

And of course, since she's this way after a couple of decades of sexless marriage, in which her husband is happy but she's clearly not, it's obvious that she's always been this way, amirite?

It's not like her husband's attitude leaves her feeling less worthy and valued on a basic level--of course not.

Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

[(Anonymous)]

Where does OP ever say the husband's happy? How do you know he's happy?

If he is an asexual - or even someone with a very low sex drive - in a relationship with someone who thinks that's "sick and fucked up", would you be especially happy? Would you be feelin' the openness to sit down and talk things through?

If she's valuing her worth solely on whether or not she's getting sex, then the problem still lies with her. That's a deeper self-worth issue than whether or not she's getting laid regularly.

Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

[(Anonymous)]

Happy in the sense that his sexual needs are satisfied (or the absence of them, anyway), and he evidently feels that his wife just needs to live with that.

And only the people agreeing with the OP said she's valuing herself solely on whether or not she's getting sex. But if sex is important to you, and the person you (probably) agreed to be sexually faithful to withholds it, then astonishingly, you might feel devalued. Certainly you couldn't be blamed for feeling that your considers your needs unimportant.

Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

[(Anonymous)]

should read "you couldn't be blamed for feeling that your partner considers your needs unimportant."