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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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OP

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
If your dad's lower libido was sudden it could be due to endocrine system issues.

She said he's always been like this, even back when they first started dating, but he still got some tests just in case there was a medical issue, and there was nothing wrong with him.

She once put some sort of "herbal Viagra" in his food, hoping it would give him the desire (even though, thanks to her oversharing, I know that he has no issues physically performing [WHY does she feel the need to tell me these things?!], the problem is just wanting to do it to begin with). It didn't work. That shocked and REALLY bothered me (maybe I'm overreacting or being SJW-y, but I thought it seemed a little rapey?) but how the hell do you tell your dad your mom drugged him?
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[personal profile] silverr 2015-05-18 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
I thought it seemed a little rapey?)

It's certainly a squicky thing to do.

but how the hell do you tell your dad your mom drugged him?

Maybe you don't (at least not without giving her a chance to tell him herself). ~ You DO tell her not to dose him again, because a) those "herbs" are often not well-regulated and b) people can have severe allergic reactions to them.

Most importantly, tell your mom that she can't use YOU as a free therapist anymore, because discussing her sex life (or lack thereof) with you makes you uncomfortable.

(Though I'm going to guess making these requests it won't make much difference; from the little you've said it sounds like she doesn't respect people's boundaries.)

OP

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 06:10 am (UTC)(link)
I don't remember exactly what I said at the time, but I did let her know she shouldn't be doing that, and as far as I know she hasn't done it again.

You're right, it doesn't make much difference, I have told her that I don't want to hear about her sex life, but she doesn't really listen.

Oh well. This thread has given me some ideas and reminded me not to take what she says personally so I'm hoping I can get a little better at just not paying attention to her.