[ SECRET POST #3056 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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Comments

Re: OP

[herpymcderp]

You've vastly misinterpreted my advice. The tl;dr version is "tell your mom you don't want to talk about your sex life because you're not interested in sex". That's really the only way to get her to stop and the only way to not feel like shit for her being offensive about it. The implication is that normal healthy relationships progress to mutual respect, not the parent demanding information from the child, and certainly not to talking about particular subjects.

If she fails to respect you, then cutting ties is the only other option.

Either way, the only way you are going to be able to stop this cycle is to "come out", so to speak. That decision is up to you, but otherwise you choose to let her continue to make hurtful comments without her knowing that they are personally affecting you.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Ah, that makes sense. Sorry for misunderstanding!

It sounds logical that I need to tell her her comments are affecting me personally, but as I've said elsewhere in this thread, I'm afraid that her comments would be even worse if she did know, and it'd just give her something else to use against me. I guess I won't know for sure unless I try, though.

Re: OP

[herpymcderp]

If her comments get worse, then you can be assured that it's time to stop talking to her and cut ties until she gets her act together. You don't deserve to have to take that kind of verbal abuse just because she's your mother.