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Re: not op
(Anonymous) 2015-05-20 07:37 am (UTC)(link)Re: not op
Again, not saying it will never work, and my reaction here isn't neutral or unbiased. It's a gut reaction. It's made worse when the person is, as I said, probably not cognitively mature, and when someone's trying to build a fantastical relationship with someone just based on how hot she is without constructing an actual character.
I've had people much older than me crush on me, and depending on how old they are, my response tends to vary from "not interested" to "ew, creeper, go away". My trainer at my current job leans into the latter category. He's old enough to be my dad but consistently get a Thing for the young women at my workplace, including, I strongly suspect, myself (and I know of at least two others, one of whom recently talked to me about it and is also pretty creeped out). Fortunately for me I don't work on his shift so I never see him anymore. I've also, when I worked in a more customer service-oriented job, had old men behave inappropriately towards me in ways that they were clearly not doing towards my male co-workers. This behavior bothers me. It's not like these are people who know me well and have fallen for me as a person - they see a young, cute face and get horny and don't even seem to think about how uncomfortable that can make the people attached to those faces.
(For reference, I'm 24.)