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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-01 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3071 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3071 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Colin Mochrie and Ryan Stiles from Whose Line is it Anyway?]


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[Ansatsu Kyoshitsu]


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[Boardwalk Empire]


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[Ore Monogatari]


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[Kid Icarus]


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[Eurovision]


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[Elden Henson, Daredevil]


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[His Dark Materials]


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(Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.)


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[Elfquest]


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[Psych]


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(Marvel's Agents of SHIELD)









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(Anonymous) 2015-06-02 09:09 am (UTC)(link)
I don't understand that viewpoint. But it is much more noble to only talk about a person when they're not there, or at least much better manners.

If you have to deal with people regularly, tensions rise. Surely it's incredibly sensible to get those tensions out by venting with your close friends instead of insulting the person to their face. To suggest that you should never say a bad word about anyone ever, in private or public, sounds like a recipe for actual violence to happen when those tensions invariably explode. Its much healthier and better for all of society to talk behind people's backs instead.

I live on a small island. Getting along with each other matters. There was another comment above "you sound Singaporean". I suspect a lot of these differences of opinion are due to geographical factors. If you come from a large, sparsely populated country then social politeness isn't such a necessity.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-02 01:23 pm (UTC)(link)
A lot of f!s are Americans who live in heavily populated cities. Don't play like this is geographical differences. Maybe cultural ones but for once it's not the American culture that is the shitty one here.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-02 03:03 pm (UTC)(link)
So the big thing for me is the contrast OP makes between the girls talking shit about someone they're pretending to be friends with and the boy telling the girls he doesn't like them. Yes, we all vent about each other, and it can be cathartic, but being two-faced is not nice, and it's certainly not more polite than being honest with someone about how you feel about them.