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fandomsecrets2015-06-16 05:59 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-06-16 05:59 pm
[ SECRET POST #3086 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3086 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2015-06-17 01:59 pm (UTC)(link)About your second paragraph, I agree with you. "Someone else touching you feels different than you touching you" like the person above me says...not really. At least not for me. To me it's basically the same so I don't get why everyone makes such a huge deal out of not being able to have sex, but obviously I'm...unusual in that regard.
Maybe I'm compartmentalizing sex and romance too much, i.e. when most people say, "Ugh, I really could use some sex right now!" the notion of emotional intimacy is wrapped up in that frustration, rather than just meaning "I'm horny -- gonna go scratch that itch"?
I think that's probably part of it with me. "Scratching an itch" is pretty much exactly how I'd describe sex (and masturbation too for that matter). Romance and emotional intimacy are separate things entirely and not required for sex. (At least for me.)