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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-18 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3088 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3088 ⌋

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Re: Family Issues

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
It is starting to make me feel sick, though. And I already have so much other stress in my life that I really can't handle it anymore. I was tempted to hang up today, but I couldn't bring myself to do it.

Re: Family Issues

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
You don't have to hang up just don't pay attention to their ranting. Listen in once in a while and agree to placate them but don't invest in their problems. There's nothing you can do anyway if they don't want to change.

Re: Family Issues

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
If you've asked them to stop and they refuse, then you may unfortunately have to be rude, for example hanging up when you don't want to. Of course this is all dependent on circumstances, and sometimes you really do just have to sigh and bear it when family members are being crappy. But you're also within your rights to avoid picking up the phone, hang up, or just get angry. Tip for hanging up: try to do so when you're in the middle of a sentence rather than when they're talking. No one ever hangs up on themselves, the logic goes, so they think the call has been disconnected.