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fandomsecrets2015-06-19 06:36 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-06-19 06:36 pm
[ SECRET POST #3089 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3089 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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04. [repeat]
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(Starsky and Hutch, "The Fix")
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06.
[Girls Next Door]
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[Star Wars]
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[Freaks and Geeks]
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11. http://i.imgur.com/ZIfyXSQ.png
[Sense8, OP marked nsfw for image of (used?) strap-on]
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12. [SPOILERS for Dragon Age Inquisition]
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13. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]
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14. [SPOILERS for Avengers Age of Ultron]
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15. [SPOILERS for The Wicked + The Divine]
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16. [SPOILERS for Finding Carter]
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17. [WARNING for RL death]
[Dragon Age]
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18. [WARNING for suicide]
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19. [WARNING for rape]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #441.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2015-06-20 03:52 pm (UTC)(link)It is not your sister's job to satisfy your father's emotional needs. It's not.
It seems like a lot of abusive parents use the Happy Family idea as a bludgeon to try and shame their victim and keep them in line. But he looooves her, doesn't he deserve her? Doesn't he have the right to be happy (by owning her)? Abusive mothers are just as likely if not more so to play up this cultural narrative too, portraying their child as a selfish villain who's trying to Destroy The Family Bond, when all they really want is to escape.
If she wants a relationship with him then yes, by all means it's freakin' awesome that you're helping ground him and remind him of what behaviors are Not Cool when you want to be friends with someone. Just at the same time forgiveness and love aren't ever owed to someone for any reason.
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(Anonymous) 2015-06-20 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)