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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-21 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3091 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3091 ⌋

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Re: Am I an asshole? a thread

(Anonymous) 2015-06-21 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I think I'm using a family crisis as a cover for my hurt pride about being rejected by the guy I like.

I mean, the family crisis was awful but I feel much worse about the rejection, but I'm saying my tearful outburst is about the former rather than the latter, to save face. Also because logically I should be more upset about bad stuff happening to my family than a guy not thinking I'm cute. :/
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Re: Am I an asshole? a thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-06-21 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think you're an asshole, but I think it would be beneficial to take a look at your handling of rejection. It sounds pretty out-of-proportion, even though it certainly isn't fun.

Or maybe the family situation is stressing you out more than you think? IDK.

Re: Am I an asshole? a thread

(Anonymous) 2015-06-22 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
What diet_poison said. Rejection hurts, of course, but it's important to figure out whether or not the pain is disproportionate and what that means.