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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-27 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3097 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3097 ⌋

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Re: Bullies

(Anonymous) 2015-06-27 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I bullied a coworker for awhile. I found her really annoying, because some of her behavior reminded me of myself at my most obnoxious. And other people found her annoying as well, which made it easy to justify mocking her, especially when they joined in or initiated it. I wish I could apologize, but she retired some years ago, and I never said anything to her face, and so far as I know, neither did anyone else. So it would be super awkward if I had to explain that I'd been an asshole if she never picked up on it, because if she never knew she'd probably be happier, seeing as how she'd never have to see me or her other coworkers again. As for why I did it? I was and am a socially maladjusted shithead, and it was better to bully than be a target. I've been on the receiving end and it sucked. And yeah, I'm sorry I did it. It was my boss' job to discipline her if she wasn't doing her job; it wasn't mine or my coworkers' responsibility to shame her into doing her job.