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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-09 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #3109 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3109 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sense8]


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[Gatchaman Crowds]


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[Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog]


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[Twin Peaks]


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[Blue Beetle]


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[Metroid]


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[God, the Devil and Bob]


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[The Cell (2000)]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 015 secrets from Secret Submission Post #444.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Getting free stuff from guys consensually

(Anonymous) 2015-07-10 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Fetish theorist here. Financial domination most commonly does NOT involve sex, but does involve the domme explicitly talking about how she would never, ever fuck the sub, he's a worthless loser who's totally beneath her and she finds his pathetic sexual desperation hilarious. So he's deriving fetishistic satisfaction from being denied sex and having his sexuality belittled.

I use specifically gendered terms in the preceding paragraph because this fetish, like some others, genders EXTREMELY strongly. Financial domination bottoms are almost exclusively male, and most of the dommes are female. This is because people tend to fetishize weirdly exaggerated versions of existing gender roles, especially ones they're insecure about. Just as women who fear male sexual aggression often have rape/ravishment/noncon fantasies of various stripes, so too do men who've been taught that their only source of worth is financial come to fetishize the exaggerated version of that stereotype.