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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-10 09:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #3110 ]


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Re: Rant thread

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2015-07-11 08:18 am (UTC)(link)
Idk. She's one of those people that's always been spacey about certain things. Even when my mum was a kid she'd mix up their names, but she's still very sharp and never has trouble keeping track of upcoming events, so while I'd like to say she's going downhill and this is out of character, I think she's just soured towards me in general since my mum died. She's always had a temper but I mostly avoided it in my early years by virtue of being tiny and adorable and polite.

She's got good health care and lives independently in a posh retirement facility, so if she does have any issues they're likely to notice. Also, my aunt drops the kids off at her place most afternoons while she shops/gets her nails done. She'd notice if her free babysitting was at risk of drying up. Then she'd call me immediately, because it would be too stressful for her to deal with and I am the fixer of things.

I'll text my aunt to talk to her neighbour to keep an eye out, though. I do know what you mean about behaviour changes and dementia. My pop had it, so I'm familiar with the warning signs. I had noticed over the last couple of years she's had more anxiety about certain things so I was already keeping an eye on her, but yes. Thanks for picking up on that.

Re: Rant thread

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-07-11 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks for picking up on that

Well, if I didn't I'd be terrible at my job lol.

Whatever happens - and even if it's not dementia related - I think it's always pertinent to remember that those kinds of outbursts usually aren't strictly about you, and are more about the person having the outburst. It's cold comfort, and well after the fact, but some people find it easier to deal with/have an appropriate reaction to those situations.

tl;dr I'm bad at being comforting lol