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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-11 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #3111 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3111 ⌋

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[Peaky Blinders - not a repeat]


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Broken friendships

(Anonymous) 2015-07-12 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever had z friend who said one too many bad things? So much of a racist, sexist, etc that it shriveled the enjoyment you got from their company that you decided you wouldn't be friends anymore.

Tell us about it. Did you find it difficult to break the friendship?

Re: Broken friendships

(Anonymous) 2015-07-12 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
I had a friend who took an internet quiz, diagnosed herself with Aspergers, and then used that as an excuse for her shitty behavior, and if you questioned it at all you were basically calling her a retard and were an evil discriminating ableist fuckface.

I ended the friendship, and the only regret I have is wasting my time on that psychopath.
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Re: Broken friendships

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-07-12 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
I had a friend that can be (and still is) an extreme SJW. And it was weird because it happened so fast! She stopped talking to me because it was "bad for her health". There were two major things that kicked it off.

1) She reblogged something about the Lil' Cricket commercials. I reblogged adding that commercial jingle that most people in the south grew up with. Someone told her Lil' Cricket was racist so she told me I had to delete it from my Tumblr. I did but then told her I thought it was pretty stupid (her "proof" was ridiculous).

2) A week or so after that she told me that because I never debated with her anymore, that she didn't want to talk to me as much. I stopped debating controversial topics with her because I was sick of her getting upset and overly emotional. She took everything -so- personally. And she would just not let stuff go.

So...we just stopped talking. The last time we talked was me asking her where she wanted me to send her birthday gift. She never answered and I still have it.

Re: Broken friendships

(Anonymous) 2015-07-12 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Had a friend of the same gender who fell in love with me and wouldn't stop pressuring me to ditch my at the time boyfriend to be with her. I had to put a foot down at her aggressively stealing kisses from me when we were away from groups and her drawing our characters together in romantic situations. Hating on my boyfriend to me and being a general asshole to him because I wouldn't leave him didn't help either.

I didn't find it difficult to end the friendship because it got out of hand and unhealthy, not to mention scared me (this all took place during high school). I didn't know how to fix our friendship after I became super uncomfortable with the whole thing and knew it was better to end it because it wouldn't get any better with her 'loving' me like that.

Re: Broken friendships

(Anonymous) 2015-07-12 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
I had to put a foot down at her aggressively stealing kisses from me when we were away from groups and her drawing our characters together in romantic situations. Hating on my boyfriend to me and being a general asshole to him because I wouldn't leave him didn't help either.

Ewwwww, that's just creepy. Boundary violation, much?

I don't understand people who repeatedly try to get with someone who doesn't want to be with them. And even less the people who behave badly in doing so... as though any part of being a disrespectful asshole looks attractive to their crush.

Hopefully she's grown up since then.