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fandomsecrets2008-02-01 06:25 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2008-02-01 06:25 pm
[ SECRET POST #392 ]
⌈ Secret Post #392 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Liz will BRB, she got newted
Secrets Left to Post: 0 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #056.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 ] broken links, [ 1 ] not!secrets, [ 1 2 ] not!fandom, [ 1 2 3 4 ] too big, [ 1 2 3 ] repeats, [ 1 ] personal attack, [ 1 ] wasn't a subtle enough troll attempt, sorry. ):
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Saturday, February 2nd, 2008.
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
#1, 5, 27, 39
#1-To you I say something similar as I did to 5, crying does not define or it shouldn't define grief and sadness. No one can tell you how you feel or how you should be reacting to something sad. I cried once when my Grandfather died and he was the only father I'd ever know. I was Grandpa's little girl, that doesn't lessen my sadness or demean me at all. So don't feel bad about your Grandmother, for Heath it was random, suddenly so out of the blue and it's that senseless grief that throws us off. Shocks us into crying. I'm not presuming to know about your Grandmother but is it possible it was something that was sadly expected? So when it happened it wasn't all that big of a shock to your system. Hence you didn't cry as much.
#5-I was saddened by Ledgers death more then I thought I would be (meaning I guess I liked him better then I originally thought) but I didn't cry about it, then again I'm not a crier. To you I say don't feel bad, death hits us in different ways. Crying does not define grief and sadness, and the fact that you're sad at all about Heath's death means that you shouldn't feel guilty. You were still effected by it but you didn't cry, that's not a bad thing.
#27-Stereotypes are idiotic and I'll agree to that, but the passive aggressive racism of this secret sets my teeth on edge. Whether that's your intention or not that's what it came across as. It's not the fault of black people for the stereotypes we see on television (which as many have pointed out are owned by white men).
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