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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-22 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3122 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3122 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[My Name is Earl]


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[Veep]


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[Welcome to Night Vale]


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[Wes Anderson]


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[Felicia Day]


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[Oscar Jarjayes/Rose of Versailles]


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[Holly Madison, Girls Next Door]


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(Game of Thrones)








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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-07-22 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Wrong on all counts.

I'm just saying that rear wheel drive and any ice on the road... well, it's a combination that has caused me several near misses until I decided to get rid of the offending vehicle.
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-22 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh huh. Why not just fucking say so instead of doing your usual hurr durr bullshit? You're not witty, you're not funny, you're not clever. You're a fucking inconsiderate asshole -- AGAIN.

Just apologize, please, because what you said was stupid and hurtful, especially in light of the post it was in response to.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-07-22 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah. Calling me an asshole does not warrant an apology. Have a good night.
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-22 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I called you an asshole because you said something stupid and hurtful like a fucking asshole. God damn.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
The fact dethtoll would have to suck up to get an apology just means your apologies don't mean shit.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
I know it probably doesn't seem this way to you, and it may seem like Dethtoll is being oversensitive but a crash can really seriously affect people and make them lash out if they feel their pain is being minimised. The same with any kind of trauma.

You may not have intended to upset him, but you did, and I'd hope you're the kind of person who doesn't want to go around upsetting people. You made (what I think was) a trivial mistake and you caused unintentional upset. The right thing to do is to apologise. And then perhaps Dethtoll will be gracious enough to apologise for calling you an asshole.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Herpy, I usually like you, but you WERE acting like an asshole here.

I do think you should apologize -- no one will think less of you. It takes strength of character to admit you were wrong, it's not weakness.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Dethtoll was totally justified in calling you an asshole, you don't get to play this childish game. Just be an adult for once, not a smarmy egotistical douche.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

(Anonymous) 2015-07-22 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
random anon here, but how bad was the christmas crash? just for context
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-22 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Totaled the car. Frame was bent out of shape, important parts were knocked loose, and both sides of the vehicle were smashed (I hit the wall, spun 180, and hit the wall again.) I was REALLY shook up and depressed for a good couple months.

(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
hmm i wonder if it wouldve been different if herpyd known that going in, lack of context probably palyed a big factor there

i can see why that offhand comment sounded so bad to you now though
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-23 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Even without that context, this thread is CALLED "your lowest moment" and I explicitly named my accident. A non-asshole would have thought twice before posting something so shitty, and a non-egomaniac wouldn't refuse to apologize.

It's pretty bad when I honestly think it it's my fanclub before I see his name.
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-07-23 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Just wanted to reassure you that I don't think you're being unreasonable here. I'd hate that too. I also don't think the default assumption when you hear about a car crash should be that it was no big deal and something that a person will like hearing snide jokes about.
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-23 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

It's honestly worse because I'm not rich, so I couldn't replace the car that easily. I've gone seven months having to rely on other people to get anywhere and none of them are reliable. I've had to cancel ALL my doctor's appointments indefinitely because of this shit. Here we are 7 months later and I'm finally getting a new car, and what do I get? Fucking Herpy fucking making a fucking Herpypost.
Edited 2015-07-23 00:19 (UTC)
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-07-23 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
That sounds awful. I'm still working on getting my license (failed the first road test and the DMVs here are understaffed lately so it takes a long time to get in again) so I know how frustrating it is to depend on other people to get around.