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⌈ Secret Post #3124 ⌋

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02. [repeat]

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[Sherlock]

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[Video Girl Ai]

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(Whiplash)

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(Hannibal fan commenting on Neil Gaiman's American Gods series)

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08. http://i.imgur.com/WNtDaEJ.jpg
[Bram Stoker's Dracula, linked for porn / iirc it's rape in the story]

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09. [WARNING for rape]

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10. [WARNING for rape/child abuse]

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11. [WARNING for child abuse]
http://i.imgur.com/f8cCfkZ.png
[For the Love of a Child, linked by OP request]

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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[Welcome To Hell]

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I think you're looking at this wrong. Instead of trying to stop masturbating or trying to want to sex, start working through that guilt instead.

You totally have the "right" to masturbate. And masturbation and sex are two totally separate things. Yes, they both involve genitals and orgasms, but otherwise, they're not the same at all. Even for sexual people, masturbating and sex are very different experiences, and someone might prefer to masturbate one day but want to have sex the next. It's okay to like or want one but not the other.

Also, a lot of asexual people masturbate. You're completely normal.

I know it's easier said than done, but try to uncouple all of these things. There's no reason for you to feel guilty. There's nothing wrong with you or with what you're doing.

IA with this, and well said. I don't really have anything to add to it, but if OP wants to masturbate I see nothing wrong with it.

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You can't control desire or lack of, but you can control the values you ascribe to them.

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