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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-24 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3124 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3124 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [repeat]


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03.
[Sherlock]


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05.
[Video Girl Ai]


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06.
(Whiplash)


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07.
(Hannibal fan commenting on Neil Gaiman's American Gods series)


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08. http://i.imgur.com/WNtDaEJ.jpg
[Bram Stoker's Dracula, linked for porn / iirc it's rape in the story]


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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape/child abuse]



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11. [WARNING for child abuse]
http://i.imgur.com/f8cCfkZ.png
[For the Love of a Child, linked by OP request]


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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[Welcome To Hell]




















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #446.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: How do you know if you're in love?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
depends what kind of love

as in love-love, head over heels love, one true love?

you just know... if you have to ask, it isn't *it*

Re: How do you know if you're in love?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
if you have to ask, it isn't *it*

damn... fifteen years in, i'm being treated badly, we have kids, wondering if it's worth keeping on going, i want to KNOW but i guess if i'm not sure?

Re: How do you know if you're in love?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
na

I guess it depends on what you mean by "treated badly" (like, are they refusing to mow the lawn when you ask them to or are they belittling you and generally just being disrespectful and abusive?), but even if you DID love them, then it might still be time to get out of that relationship. Sometimes, love just isn't enough and you really don't want to be one of those people who stays in a toxic relationship because you believe that you should put up with it because you love them (especially since you have kids. I definitely got a lot of shitty ideas about how relationships are supposed to work from watching my own parents). If the issues are little things that you feel can be overcome, then it might be worth a shot to try and convince your partner to go to a marriage counseling session or two. If they absolutely refuse to do anything to work on the problems you two have with each other, then it may be time to start thinking about divorce proceedings (assuming that you're married. based on your comment, I'm not sure)

Re: How do you know if you're in love?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 01:48 pm (UTC)(link)
if you're not happy, it's not worth it