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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-26 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3126 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3126 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it's not wrong, but I think your means were disproportionate to the desired end. You know what I mean?
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[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-26 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't put it that way. I just get frustrated easily when people's debate tactics is to just repeat their original argument and not actually respond to the other person. So I tend to react poorly to that.

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I don't think it was an argumentative tactic, so much as it was you guys just talking past each other. Which is maybe why it's so easy for stuff to go sideways. Mutual incomprehension.

And I totally get what you mean about frustration. But I think that's also kind of exactly what I'm talking about - because from the outside, the result of that frustration looks like it's massively out of proportion to the subject of the argument.
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[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-26 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair enough!

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I mean, I guess the thing that worries me is that it seems like your narrative is still about the other person flagrantly ignoring the facts, and not about you and the other person not understanding what the other meant to say and then getting pulled into an argument because of mutual frustration

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I wonder if the other person felt that way about you.
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[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-26 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Keep wondering.

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I will ask. Making an account just to message them. here comes analanon123456789
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[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-07-26 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
hot

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
NVM! analanon is not taken somehow