[ SECRET POST #3126 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3126 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

[(Anonymous)]

A large part of the problem is that most of the people calling for realism don't know what it really is like, and assume the worst

The most common offender I have seen so far is "it's always incredibly painful the first time, no exceptions"

Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

[herpymcderp]

Well, I mean... okay, any sex is going to suck if you're not relaxed and in the right mood. But... I don't get this?

I guess I've never actually come across this. I tend to write what I feel is realistic sex (having had sex a lot) and I suppose that's my frame of reference: it can be a bit weird, miscommunications can happen, awkward things can be done/said, and it's almost never The Best Evar(tm). However, that certainly doesn't mean people are running around with poopdick or going through agony every time anyone attempts anal sex.

Maybe this is all part of the sex negative trend that's been hitting some fandoms lately. Who knows.

Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

[(Anonymous)]

Not sex-negative, it's a small but consistent backlash against the perfect fantasy anal sex that makes up most of slash fic, only this minority is made of the people who take it too far and equate 'realistic' to 'adding in bad things like poopdick and pain ~gritty reality~' instead of 'imperfect with awkward laughter and someone not sure how to give a blowjob' which is how I'd define realistic personally

It's been around for a long while since before the heyday of anime yaoi fandoms

Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

[(Anonymous)]

The difference is you've had sex. These people haven't, so what they think is realistic...isn't.