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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-26 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3126 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3126 ⌋

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Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-27 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Not only I never see lube for PIV in fics, almost no one mentions it IRL when talking about sex. There were times I felt I was the only person who liked using lube for that kind of sex (and therefore felt awkward bringing it up with new partners).

Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-27 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
No one talks about it, but I've gathered from some of my friends with less boundaries, a lot of people use it, but its seen as weird to bring up because you aren't "supposed" to need extra help. Its stupid.

Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-27 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
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but its seen as weird to bring up because you aren't "supposed" to need extra help. Its stupid

I've heard stuff like this before and it's just so weird. I've known a couple of women who are too embarrassed to use lube when they need it and guys who get shamed because if they use lube during sex, then they clearly weren't able to get their partner aroused and wet enough to have sex without it (which is just...what? no). I'm usually good to go during PIV sex, but I still need lube every once a while for some extra help. And, hell, sometimes it's just more fun to have sloppy lube sex.