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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-26 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3126 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3126 ⌋

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Re: Is anyone tired of the "realistic anal sex" trend?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-27 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually have seen lube get used in het fic. One which was basically dubcon/marital rape, but the creep didn't want to hurt his new wife.

And another, which was still chock full of arranged marriage/husband makes sure his sheltered virgin new wife isn't in pain type stuff. But the second fic actually had a scene, after the married couple grew to care for each other, where she wanted to have sex but was disconcerted to find that she was dry and kind of sore from going at it like rabbits the day before, and asks her husband to break out the lube.

I also thought the author of the second fic was cool for posting to her blog that while she tried not to write blatantly unrealistic sex, her fic still used some soppy romance novel bullshit tropes, and proceeded to point out the most egregious, since while she'd prefer that young teens not read her fic, she knew they'd do it anyway, and even some older people still had a lot of misconceptions about sex, and she didn't want to perpetuate them.

And I vaguely remember a third het fic where a newly married couple is getting down to business, and the husband pulls out a bottle of lube, but his wife points out she probably doesn't need it because horseback riding and she masturbates a lot. The husband laughs, calls her "his kind of girl," and asks if it's okay if they use it anyway, so they do.