[ SECRET POST #3130 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3130 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Will.i.am and Miriam Margoyles on the Graham Norton show]


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03.
[One Direction]


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04.
[George Takei, Bruce Lee]


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05.
[Tales From the Borderlands]


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06.
[The 100]


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07.
[Sense8]


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08.
[Genshiken Nidaime]


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09.
[Lawrence of Arabia]


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10.
[Doctor Zhivago]










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Comments

Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

I had a BFF. She was increasingly mean and guilt tripping and start of the year I just cut off all connections in the hope it will naturally fade out. I don't think she's realised cause I didn't say anything I just stopped responding and she didn't follow up. Not dealing with her has been great but I'm worried she'll confront me soon because her birthday is coming up.

Idk if any1 remembers but I posted last year, that she'd get angry that I didn't want her to live with me and would call me a horrible friend and breaks people stuff but then be rely nice and call me the best friend ever and I couldn't cut her off straight away because we were both bridesmaids for a third party she always back talks about and I can't believe it took me so many years and ppl pointing out she was shitty to realise.

Re: Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

And since you dropped contact with her, how have you felt? If the answer is "good" (and I suspect it is) then that means you've made the right choice. It's entirely possible she could pop up again and try to start something, but even if she does, that only confirms how right you were to drop her in the first place.

But if it's making you anxious, do some pre-emptive work and block her on every social media thingy you can so you won't see any future messages-- if indeed there are any. Remember, you have NO obligation to respond to her at all if you don't want to.

Re: Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

Your friend kind of sounds like she has borderline personality :P

Re: Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

NA Oh god all the ex friends I've had with borderline...  >.<

Re: Ex friend dramas

[dethtoll]

Every so often I get asked "so have you thought about [basketcase ex-friend] lately?" and I'm like no, why would I? She was a manipulative, narcissistic emotional vampire. I don't need that in my life.

Re: Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

*tips Fedora*

Re: Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

I have an ex-friend who I could give that exact response about, lol. Emotional vampire especially suits her. When things finally blew up and she turned against me, like she had every single other friend she had, I was kind of relieved.

Re: Ex friend dramas

[caerbannog]

God yes.

People asking how someone is and??? I don't fucking no I've not spoken to them in months and I don't want to? I'm finally free!

The worst is mutual friends who don't realise yet... :(

Re: Ex friend dramas

[(Anonymous)]

I cut a toxic 'friend' out of my life several months ago too. One of the best decisions I ever made. I have so much more free time now I don't have to deal with her drama and spend hours having one-sided conversations consisting of her moaning about everything.