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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-09 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3140 ]


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[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-08-09 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know how to explain it exactly. Something about how these guys write romance . . . It's like sex isn't just part of a relationship, but the purpose for which the relationship exists. Like the act of sex is itself a being, and it's greater than both participants and pulling their strings. Like playfulness, laughter, and enjoyment of the other person's company have no place in the bedroom, because it's all sex sex sex fuck fuck fuck. (If you ever want to see exactly how bad this can get, read The Evolution of Bruno Littlemore, and then scour your brain with steel wool.)
Edited 2015-08-09 20:54 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2015-08-09 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I see that everywhere. It manages to be cliche and bizarre.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-09 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
But, to be fair, I have experienced guys going into a sort of trance at a certain level of horniness, even otherwise very considerate guys; where suddenly getting off trumps all else: comfort, mutual enjoyment, risk of discovery etc. And if you are as horny yourself, this can be very, very sexy. But if you are on another stage of arousal, even only slightly off, it can be off-putting, disconcerting and certainly make it seem like sex is a means or an entity of it's own, who have just whisked your love interest away for a (pretty critical) while.
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[personal profile] ninety6tears 2015-08-09 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't remember getting that impression at all TBH, from the first half of the book which was all I read but I doubt there was much sex stuff after where I left off? Maybe there was a whole lot of emphasis on attraction but given that the attraction was so recently realized at the addendum of a long-going friendship it made sense that in that brief run of passion there would be a lot of emphasis on the unexplored ingredient in the relationship. But eh, it has been a long time since I read it.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-10 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
wow. you've managed to put into words what i loathe about so many litfic books.

humorless sex is the worst to read.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-10 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
+1

Sex is what puts me off of litfic. I can roll my eyes at or disagree with other stuff, but that kind of attitude towards sex squicks me.