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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-11 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #3142 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3142 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Fantastic Four (2015)]


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03.
[Final Fantasy XIV]


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[Hunter x Hunter]


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[TES4:Oblivion]


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[Yukigumi, Otozuki Kei]


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[Vocaloid]


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[Sailor Moon -~ Petite Étrangère~ / Takarazuka OG]


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[A Fire Upon the Deep]


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[clockwise from top right: Static Shock, The Justice Friends, Teen Titans]


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[Sugar Sugar Rune]


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[Sword Art Online]


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13.
(Little Shop Of Horrors)


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[Rookie Blue]


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15.
[Final Fantasy VII]












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #449.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: A theory

[personal profile] intrigueing 2015-08-12 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
If the guys were pulling a "she abused me" scam when they were the abuser, they wouldn't go to a shelter though. Why would they? It doesn't benefit them in any way. No one is going to go to a DV shelter for a scam when they don't need to unless they were really mentally deranged. For one thing, it makes it harder for guys to keep their position of power (which is why a lot of guys beat on their wives in the first place) -- they're physically separated from their wives and have no excuse to want to see her anymore, and they give up their homes, their possessions, could make it difficult for them to hold down their job for a source of income, etc.

Also, seconding everything kaijinscendre said. If there's no stats for it occurring in Australia it's because they're not collecting data from which to get stats. And gay/bi men with violent male partners exist, just btw. Including gay/bi men with children.