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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-12 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3143 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3143 ⌋

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Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Why though? What about your experience do you think differs greatly enough to make that distinction?
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Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

[personal profile] vethica 2015-08-13 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Of course I don't have anyone's experience but my own to draw on, but I base it on the fact that I've only been sexually attracted to one person, which I gather isn't usual, and the fact that that attraction only happened once we were already in a relationship, which I assume was the catalyst.

Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
Attraction not happening until you're interested in someone is pretty normal, though. I mean, when I first met my last boyfriend, I thought he was kind of cute, but not "want to bang him" hot or anything. I didn't start really thinking of him as attractive in a sexual way until we got to know each other better and I realized that he was funny and sweet and the kind of guy I would want to date.

Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
Me too! How did I not know this was common?!

Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Believe it or not, that's how sexual attraction works for the vast majority of people. A lot of stuff in fandom with the "I'll be in my bunk" and "I just creamed myself" and etc is just horny people using hyperbole. They wouldn't actually jump that actor's bones in real life, they just find him aesthetically nice and feel the need to go overboard with saying so.