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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-12 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3143 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3143 ⌋

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Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a fairly* normal, well-adjusted adult and I fit the definition of asexuality, although I don't usually use the word. I've never told anyone I interact with in person because it just doesn't seem to be relevant information to anyone I'm not going to potentially be dating. And online I've only used it when discussing sexuality and orientations because it's a simpler/shorter way of saying how I feel.

Anyway, my point is that I think there are plenty of real asexual (at least fitting the definition, even if they don't use the word) people, but you don't know because they don't make a big deal of it. It's mostly not that important, and they just live their lives. The (mostly younger) people who are constantly going on about it and seem to craft their entire identity around it, I'm more likely to think they have other issues and/or just want attention.

*Just because I feel like NO ONE is 100% "normal" and it really depends on what your criteria for "normal" is as well...