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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-12 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3143 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3143 ⌋

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Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
But just because your feelings changed doesn't mean it's not real. Also, you were in your teens and people can change so damn much at that age.

When you're fucking 30 years old and feel that way, and you've been in relationships and it still hasn't changed, and you've been made to feel like shit and like you're broken and not good enough and you don't deserve love because of it, and you discover asexuality and you finally start to feel a little bit better about yourself and like maybe you aren't as defective as you thought, and someone comes along and says it's fake, it's really goddamn shitty.
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Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

[personal profile] otakugal15 2015-08-13 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Meh, I still feel that way, even now. And I'm 28.

And I would never say you "don't deserve love." Just that you probably have hormone issues.

Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait, what? If you still feel asexual now then why are you saying it doesn't exist? Or am I missing something?

Nope. No health issues of any kind, no childhood abuse or sexual assault, no mental issues, I have a good family that I'm close to...there's zero reason for why I'm like this other than...I just am.
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Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

[personal profile] otakugal15 2015-08-13 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't say I was now did I? Just that normal people feel those same things you supposed asexuals feel. Hence why I don't really believe it exists.

Sorry, I don't believe that.

Re: Asexuality, demisexuality, etc

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Whatever.