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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-15 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3146 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3146 ⌋

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Re: Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-15 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT--I doubt my mother's friend is actually capable of killing anyone, since she's been confined to a hospital bed for over a month and may never leave until she's taken out in a body bag. And I haven't actually seen the daughter in years and doubt they actually plan to kill me. On a lot of drugs+brain tumor+brain biopsy= This lady says a lot of really bizarre things. She was hallucinating ducks in her bed for awhile. It's the sentiment I object to. And my mom has a lot of practice making excuses for scum in her own life.

Her dad raped her and her brothers and beat her mother, but she still insists he wasn't a horrible person, because he provided for them when he didn't have to. It took my dad spending all their savings on drugs for his much younger girlfriend and nearly killing someone and ending up in jail multiple times for her to divorce him, and she still felt guilty. Basically, my mom has less self-esteem than pond scum, and doesn't understand that it's okay to cut abusive shitheads out of her life. All the people I'd consider her actual friends (they're not trying to weasel anything out of her) live hundreds of miles away, and she's scared to go visit because her health sucks. At least they occasionally come visit, but they can't convince her to tell these people to fuck off.

Re: Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-16 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
Even if the woman's brain tumor and chemo sometimes cause her to say bizarre, off-the-wall things she doesn't mean, it doesn't follow that every ugly thing she says can be attributed to her medical condition, or that the malice isn't real. These people have a grudge against you because you refused to let them mooch off you, and you suspect the daughter of killing more than one of your pets. I would not blow it off as harmless.

The sentiment is so vile that frankly, I don't care how poor your mom's self-esteem is, or how desperate she is for a friend. If she stays "friends" with this person, your mom is not your friend.