[ SECRET POST #3147 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3147 ⌋

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op

[(Anonymous)]

I'm trying to be there. The problem is I am not the most...emotionally available person. I love her but I have a hard time expressing myself in emotional situations. I am like that GIF from 30 Rock of Alec Baldwin rubbing the person with a broom going "There, there."

I feel like I just keep repeating the same stuff over and over. "He doesn't want to change." "It's been three years of this." "You can't be his mother and his romantic partner." "You will never know if he is lying to you." etc

Re: op

[elaminator]

Ah, I get you. Sometimes I feel like that too; expressing yourself isn't always easy, even when you have good intentions and want to help.

In her situation I feel like even asking how things are going and lending an ear would be helpful though. You say she has no one else, so even talking to you about her problems is going to be a form of release for her, even if all you have to say are things she's heard before. That you care enough to listen and respond is probably something she greatly appreciates.

I don't know your sister, but maybe she needs to hear those things more than once anyway. Maybe she needs someone to be completely honest with her about the situation; she's so emotionally involved that she doesn't seem to want to admit he probably won't change.

Re: op

[(Anonymous)]

No, he has no one else in the area. Which is why she feels bad about leaving him. But..she can't keep babysitting him.

Re: op

[(Anonymous)]

And that is neither her responsibility nor her fault. She is not his mother and he is a grown-ass man.