[ SECRET POST #3149 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3149 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Sexual compatibilty

[a_potato]

Sometimes that can be solved by talking about it, but sometimes it can't. Low libido is sometimes caused by external factors or health issues, and some people are okay with having sex when they don't want it. But some people have a low libido simply because that's the way they're wired, and some people feel awful when they have sex that they don't want.

Generally speaking, a relationship in which there is a libido mismatch (and we're talking extremes, here, not, like, person A wants it 5 times a week and person B only wants it 3 times a week. We're talking person A wants it 5 times a week and person B only wants it 2 or 3 times a month) is going to have more problems than one in which libidos are well-matched. And this is, of course, assuming monogamy.

Re: Sexual compatibilty

[(Anonymous)]

Some people don't know what their libido will be until they've had sex, too.

Maybe sex turns out to not be as amazing as everyone says it is, and it plummets.

Maybe it turns out to be amazeballsholyshit so much better than they expected and their libido goes soaring.

Maybe the person masturbates all the time but when it comes to sex with a partner they can't be assed.

Maybe the person never masturbates and assumes they have little interest but holy shit sex with a partner is different!

Re: Sexual compatibilty

[a_potato]

Very true, those are great points!

Re: Sexual compatibilty

[(Anonymous)]

All of which are good reasons to have sex before you get married to someone so that you can find these things out.