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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-20 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3151 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3151 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[DRAMAtical Murder]


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03.
[Ruby Tandoh]


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[Sex&Drugs&Rock&Roll]


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(Anastasia Romanov)


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[Chris Lilley]


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[Surge concerto]


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[Starsky and Hutch]


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[Ragnarok Online & Tree of Savior]


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[purplekecleon/floraverse]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 012 secrets from Secret Submission Post #450.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Ding ding ding!

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
DA. So people should just suffer in silence instead of being honest?

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
https://kiwifar.ms/threads/purplekecleon-aka-pk-or-papayakitty-abusive-manipulative-artist-and-their-creepy-harem.5567/

Putting this here. If you think the pengo thing is people's only issue with pk, you're sadly mistaken.

Also a lot of people who've been around them even up leaving suddenly. Not just the ones who get paragraph long callout posts. See crayon-chewer and iveechan in the pmd-e group. Iveechan even reblogged pengo's rebuttal.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree OP should talk to her but I'm not sure your other proposed solution is entirely viable

Yeah sure OP will just magically get over their phobia and be fine. Great solution! And otherwise it's OP's fault, obviously.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
This is why men just don't work in grown-up relationships.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2015-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Exactly! Honestly, this is actually kind of how I feel about a lot of non-canon pairings, though usually I'm just like "well, it's not quite as interesting as gen, but if a shipping fic is compelling and in-character I'll still enjoy the hell out of reading it."

But with the X-Files, the "OMG SO NOT THE POINT OF THE SHOW/CHARACTERS/RELATIONSHIP" factor was completely off the charts, and that combined with the fandom/later canon made me actively anti-ship it.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's about how the discussion is, and how mature they can have it. I'm not saying "pull the phobia card" but they should be able to have an adult conversation without someone freaking out about it. If the scenario can only end in drama, that means the relationship is not a very mature or healthy one, tbh, and they should have a talk about more than just the tattoo.

Re: Stupid little confessions

[personal profile] sachiko_san 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
My thing is when it's a foreign property, and I am referring specifically to anime, and they make merchandise they refuse to sell to people outside of the country.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
If the tattoos actually matter to OP and to OP's GF as much as OP says, then yes.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Whoa, now, that's not what I'm saying. I'm just saying communication would be good, and I think OP is actually being very sensitive to their gf's tattoo sitch by not wanting to bring up this issue. However, I think it's in both their best interest if the cards are on the table, in a non-judgmental way.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

This whole thing is OP's fault from the get-go.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
This. idk what shitty tumblr posts they're getting relationship advice from

Re: Stupid little confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope

Re: Stupid little confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh. Yeah. I am being judgmental. Where did I say I wasn't? Like...the whole point of the confession was judgement.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
How the fuck is it OP's fault? They didn't choose to be freaked out by wasps

are you baiting me

Re: Stupid little confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Whenever I see a statue or any artwork with a figure in a squatting position, I always imagine them pooping.

Like this:
https://www.flickr.com/photos/xjy2/38986702

or this:
http://www.metmuseum.org/toah/works-of-art/2003.154

In my mind, they're about to start dumping a load.

Re: Stupid little confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree, but whenever we have this discussion, the pirates of FS come out and talk about how entitled they are to free things.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy fucking shit, don't ever get into a serious relationship. Does "communication" only mean anything to you if it's 100% positive? You're allowed to tell your SO how you feel about something, even if it's bad.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Regardless, don't you find it skeevy that purplekecleon makes their porn very much accessible to their young audience?

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
It sounds like something to do with guys collecting and claiming ownership over women somehow, but that's shot it the dark.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
whaaat? How is that possibly the case?

+1

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a constant source of frustration in my little Youtube fandom, where all the fans bitch and moan about ads, adblock like the wind, and then complain when the Youtubers resort to getting sponsors to make up their income. "Booooo, sellouts, HDU talk about your sponsor for 30 seconds of my time!!1"

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Godddddd shut the fuck up forever please

Re: Stupid little confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
No, because if you can't afford to buy something, stealing is not the answer. Pretty simple concept that people get all het up about because they like their torrents.

Re: Relationship Question

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, you.

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