[ SECRET POST #394 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #394 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 15 pages, 375 secrets from Secret Submission Post #057.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, [ 1 ] not!secrets, [ 1 ] not!fandom, [ 1 ] repeat, [ 1 2 ] too big, [ 1 ] personal attack, [ 1 ] we went through this yesterday.
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Comments

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

You must be a virgin because I've never heard of that shit being typical. You're in a monogamous relationship and have gotten tested for STIs, the girl's on birth control... why use a condom? It's kind of why birth control pills were invented.

Re: OP 16

[rainbloom.livejournal.com]

Indeed I am. Sorry if it bothers you? But srsly. As a large majority of my friends aren't, just because I haven't done it myself doesn't mean I'm ignorant to this stuff, girls talk, ya know? We're teenagers. And birth control can and does FAIL, not just in movies. Simply because you're happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean you want a kid, so yeah, as far as I can tell, using both is typical. At least for my friends.

But w/e, I guess it's just where I'm from, and that fact that there are already so many unplanned pregnancies in our area that maybe the girls are just being extra cautious.

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

There's nothing wrong with being extra cautious -- it's great! -- but such caution is relatively rare across the globe.

Re: OP 16

[rainbloom.livejournal.com]

I-I'm glad you didn't snap at me >:

...That's really sad to hear.

Re: OP 16

[germania731.livejournal.com]

just out of curiosity i wonder where you/rainbloom are from, because my area is pretty darn cautious also.

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

New York City. I'm not saying people don't use condoms, it's just that when you're in a committed relationship here, you and your partner get tested, and if you're disease free, the girl might go on the pill in order to stop using condoms. It's just the way things are usually done amongst my group of friends. No pregnancy scares yet.

Re: OP 16

[germania731.livejournal.com]

hmm. among my friends it's the norm to double deal it--we're from san francisco. personally I say, if you can't deal with "pregnancy scares" don't have sex. *shrug* but then, I know how well that works.

Re: OP 16

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

I'm not a virgin, and I've always used both with sex with men I know the histories of. My gay friend is in a committed relationship with obviously no fear of pregnancies, and they both know histories and STILL use condoms. My STRAIGHT friends are the same.

Your experience =\= all, and neither does mine.

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

Calm your ass. I wasn't talking about my experiences, I was talking about the choices of most of the world. Exhibits A, B, C, D, E... on and on...: HIV in Africa, HIV in India, HIV in America, HIV in China, HPV prevalence in college students. Et cetera et cetera.

FACT: PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS HAVE THE SAFEST SEX. MOST OF THE TIME, THEY DON'T.

Re: OP 16

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

I don't recall being angry.

I am well aware that people don't practice safe sex on a frequent basis, but that is a completely moot point as we're talking specifically of people that DO practice safe sex.

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

Okay, nice talking to you!

Re: OP 16

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

Wow, you're a bitch, and a bitch that doesn't get it. Ta.

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

What's your problem, man? I get it, and there's nothing left to say on the matter. So... bye!

Re: OP 16

[coutureable.livejournal.com]

See, it's obvious YOU are an idiot.

It's TOTALLY typical if you REALLY don't want a child. Everyone who knows something about BC knows that nothing is 100% effective.
So if you're willing to take that chance that you won't be the 2% or 5% that it fails for, then you're going to have to take the responsibility when it comes that you WERE in that margin of statistics.

And not taking the pill does not make him any less of an idiot for just not wearing a condom to BE SAFE. Just in case she accidentally missed her pill a day and she ovulated anyway. The BC pill is not very effective unless taken TOTALLY as directed. Meaning - every day at the same time.