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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-02-03 05:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #394 ]


⌈ Secret Post #394 ⌋

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[identity profile] tealizard.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
and you're talking Like I haven't been in that situation. I have. I have been there.

[identity profile] a-white-rain.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
You have the personality and backing to be strong enough to say 'no'. Good for you. Not everyone does. Blaming the victim is disgusting.

[identity profile] tealizard.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not 'blaming' the victim. I'm saying that people make saying no to "but ill break up with you" seem alot harder. Most of those people HAVENT been there.

[identity profile] a-white-rain.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
But it's not always easy to say no when you're in an abusive relationship. And yes, you are if your boyfriend is manipulating you. Now a lot of women would would have the strength to say no, but a lot of women don't have that kind of strength for various reasons.

[identity profile] midnightdiddle.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
First off, you don't know if most of those people haven't been there. Unless you can magically read their minds, or have seen everything they've gone through, you don't know what they have or haven't been through. And secondly, everyone is different, and like other commentors have said, everyone reacts to pressure differently.

Some people can say no easily. Some people can't. Some people just desperately want love, so much that they'll do anything, even things they don't really want to do.

So honestly, to belittle people for having a difficult time saying no is just pathetic. D: Have some sympathy for other people. Even if they aren't the cancer patients.

[identity profile] jewbrat.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
i'm siding with a_white_rain here.
go fuck yourself.
no. seriously. you have NO IDEA, judging by what you've said, what it's like to be the girl being pressured by a very manipulative person. women can be awful, but men are just as capable of taking advantage of a girls weaknesses and exploiting them for they're own personal agenda. Speaking from very personal experience, sometimes the thought of the person you're with (even if they're the devil himself, it doesn't matter because you are BLINDED by your affection for them) can feel like the end of the world.

lol daddy complexes etc.
get more edumacated before you argue a point next time.