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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-02-03 05:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #394 ]


⌈ Secret Post #394 ⌋

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[identity profile] ronsard.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
I hardly think anyone with an idea of what that situation's like could possibly be unaware of the reality... the issue is whether or not we (not just women - everyone) should have to stand for that. I think the answer's no. If a guy professes disinterest in sharing the burden of an unwanted pregnancy, his girlfriend has the right to decline having sex with him, and yes, while I realize this isn't always an option for the girl , we as a society can influence the outcome by changing our fucking attitude about the whole thing.

It's not enough just to warn women about taking care of their own bodies - there should be social punishment for those men who fail to respect their partners' bodies. So the point is not that girls should have it easy - it's that they shouldn't have to have it so hard.
Edited 2008-02-05 04:50 (UTC)

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2008-02-06 06:53 am (UTC)(link)
It's not enough just to warn women about taking care of their own bodies - there should be social punishment for those men who fail to respect their partners' bodies.

That's where we'll have to agree to disagree. Maybe it's cynicism on my part, but as far as I'm concerned, it's the woman's body and she has full responsibility, preggers or not, for better or for worse. A man can't be expected or trusted to take precautions for something that doesn't involve him as intimately as it will involve her.

Social punishment for men who knock up young girls is meaningless. What needs to be done is have more support for the mother and the children. I agree that the stigma needs to be done away with, though. A woman shouldn't have to pay her entire life for having kids young.