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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-28 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #3159 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3159 ⌋

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06. [SPOILERS for Tales of the Abyss]



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07. [WARNING for rape]



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Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
He's a propsition: Are Alpha Male traites acceptable or even desirable in women?

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Definitely.

(For me)
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Re: Alpha Male Females

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-08-28 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
????????? *squints* ??????

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
What are alpha male traits, and do they all come in a bundle or can we answer one by one, depending on what they are and who has them?

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
If you get them bundled there's a discount.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
What's an alpha male trait anyway?

If you mean sexual assertiveness, hell yeah I like it in my women.

I think it's possible to be a forceful assertive personality without being a douche overriding others' wishes. I wish for a world post-gender roles, personally.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yesssss.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Never considered it before but yes. men I would keep away from and be actively disgusted by would be much more attractive to me if they were women. I wonder why that is?

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
What are "Alpha Male traites"?

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Think of the worst stereotype of the dudebro douchbag. confidence for days, hyper-sexdrive, angry / aggressive / assertive, sometimes physically violent, certainly domineering, excessive working out. Everything men know not to be if they want to be good people. Now give that person breasts and hips and a female body. Does it become hot?
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Re: Alpha Male Females

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-08-28 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
You just turned me off, so I guess not.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Hot or not, it certainly becomes more unusual to see and therefore more interesting if we're talking about fictional characters. It's something that would get my attention, even if I end up not liking them.

And some people find unusualness hot. Not me, but there's that factor to consider too - it may not be the traits themselves talking, but the rarity factor as well for those that say yes.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
I just threw up in my mouth imagining the Jersey Short monster you describe.

But yes, I do find Ronda Rousey hot.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
ayart

Well, the only things you listed that are absolute deal breakers for me are angry/aggressive/domineering and physically violent...I don't see how confidence and working out (you did say "excessive" though) are bad things. One can certainly be confident without being a raging arrogant douchebag. But in answer to the question, no, I wouldn't find a woman like that hot, but I don't find men like that hot either.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm wondering what kind of person thinks confidence is evidence of pure evil.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
J.K. Rowling seems to think ambition=evil, there aren't any good Slytherins.
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Re: Alpha Male Females

[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-08-28 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
They aren't even desirable in men.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-28 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry, that's my point (straight woman btw) gross in men, but strangely attractive in women.
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Re: Alpha Male Females

[personal profile] philstar22 2015-08-29 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think they are desirable in anyone since they involve being selfish and telling people what to do when they don't work for you and haven't asked for you to tell them what to do. Every single man I've ever heard use the term alpha male is a horrible human being, so I don't really think women having those traits is any better.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
I disagree with the basic framing and assumptions of the question.

So, I have no response.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
as Tina said, "Bitches get stuff done!"
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Re: Alpha Male Females

[personal profile] ariakas 2015-08-29 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
What, like a knotting penis? How does that work in females?

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
With a little elbow grease

Re: Alpha Male Females

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-29 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
Surprisingly few species have female members with vaginal cavities that are designed to keep forcible contact with a male after mating, actually.

Mostly they tend to be designed to either thwart unwanted impregnation or selectively store and utilize many sperm deposits.

I don't think the concept of the knotting female sex organ is evolutionarily viable, really.

Re: Alpha Male Females

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
Alpha Male traits aren't acceptable or desirable in anyone.