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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-29 04:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #3160 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Re: Sex thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Terrible. GF has no sex drive. Like zero. About three years since last encounter with her. I know I can't put any pressure on her, but my sexual frustration is through the roof.

Re: Sex thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-29 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
That's really tough. I'd have a hard time being with someone who had no sex drive, obviously people can go through dry phases, but for me, (some) sex is important in the relationship.

Re: Sex thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Can you talk to her about non-monogamy? I know that's a tough pill to swallow in and of itself, but it might be an answer to alleviate your sexual frustration (which could breed resentment eventually) so that she doesn't have to feel pressured to do something she doesn't want to do.

Re: Sex thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 08:30 am (UTC)(link)
Nope. I am a very jealous person. I could not live with the idea of someone else with her, which is the natural flip side to this proposal. Also, knowing how much that would hurt me, I could not inflict that feeling on her.

Re: Sex thread

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 10:44 am (UTC)(link)
I get why you suggested this, but that doesn't seem like a solution. Some, or most, people are monogamous. I think the problem is within OP's relationship. I hope they can work it out, but honestly, extreme sexual incompatibility might be a reason to reevaluate a relationship.