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⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Comments

Re: A small vent

[elaminator]

I'm sorry, anon. That sounds frustrating.

Has this been going on for long? Do you think there's any way f1 might feel left out in your group? (I'm not saying you've done anything to make them think that, but some people are insecure or jump to wrong conclusions.)

Unless they have been offended by a common opinion you guys share, I honestly don't know what could be going on.

Sometimes people do have trouble connecting or being social when other things are going on in their lives, but since you've mentioned they have no problem being happy interacting with others idk.

Maybe you should just ask if anything is wrong? It might be a bit uncomfortable, but that's probably the easiest way to find out.

I hope it works out!

Re: A small vent

[(Anonymous)]

I really don't know...F1 isn't a venter, and if I asked them what was wrong I'd either look selfish ("why aren't you paying attention to me?") or make them feel bad ("did you know you're hurting your friends?"), no matter how I phrased it.

My suspicion is that, since we all have issues, they may not be able to deal with ours on top of theirs right now, so they stick to joking with people who don't expect anything more than joking, rather than opening themself up to being confided in (and probably poked and prodded about how they feel and how we can help). Which is understandable. I just, well. Wish I could do something, and hope it works out too. >_

Re: A small vent

[elaminator]

You wouldn't need to specifically ask them if they're upset with you, you could say, “We haven't had a one on one for a while and I wanted to know how you are!" Or, if you rant then maybe tell them they're free to do so too.

But if that's truly the issue here then I can understand why you're hesitant to bring it up. You don't want to push too much though I think your intentions are good.

I suppose you can just wait it out, see if anything changes. (Or maybe plan a lighthearted hangout where you guys can just enjoy yourself? Promise each other that you won't talk too much about RL, then chat about it later when f1 isn't around?)

Re: A small vent

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I think waiting and hoping is all I or any of us can do right now. I'll remind F1 periodically that we care about them, but I get the feeling pushing won't help. Thanks for listening, though. It does help to get it all off my chest - now I'm only upset about my own life, which is an improvement, I guess =P