[ SECRET POST #3160 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Comments

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

Look it's long so I'm not going to read it, you've obviously got your issues and history together etcetera.

Keep your personal fights to private messages. Send a DW message. Send an email. Send a whatever other account message. Send a snail mail. You're not even trying to keep this private.

There's usual drama and then there's this toxic borderline crazy thing going on between the two of you. Mostly you at this point.

Honestly I think having a forced break from shitstream will do you good.

Please don't post it tomorrow because the majority of us do not actually care and don't like figuratively walking down the street to our local coffee shop only to have a bunch of nutjobs in a failed relationship screaming at each other.

Re: So:

[chardmonster]

You care so little you just wrote this whole thing.

I would happily just do this in chat. I'm not being allowed to.

Also--most people at the local coffee shop aren't collapsible.

nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Private messages don't work? You know all his passwords I guess, so I assume you know his email address.

Re: nayrt

[chardmonster]

Private messages don't work for people who don't check them.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Ah! And this is totally going to reach him, deep down inside??

Re: nayrt

[chardmonster]

Nah. It'll reach my other friends though.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Doesn't work for people who don't scroll down either. Can't wait for you to sour tomorrow's post as well.

Re: nayrt

[chardmonster]

I'm sure you'll be waiting with baited breath to show me anonymous what for.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

DA

You just know the people replying like that and creating even more hostility are the ones who love watching drama anyway...

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

If you mean I'll sigh, roll my eyes and leave some kind of snarky comment. Yes.
But it won't be an essay like that dear lord.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

You should right one! It'd be awesome.

Re: nayrt

[chardmonster]

I just think it's funny you're so offended by something I made sure was collapsed and warned for. Hell I even called it bullshit drama.

You do you.

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

No, I care enough about FS to be blunt with you. But I don't care enough about you to read that essay up top.

You have options beyond chat and you're not even trying that. You could have responded up thread where it's already collapsed instead of its own post. You're also purposely being obtuse but you've been pretty odd this week so I'm ignoring that.

You need to either let it go (i think that might be best for you, go on a holiday or something), or learn how to approach noodly properly without turning this into some giant drama in front of a crowd.

Every time you do one of these big essay rants/vents you don't learn anything, you don't listen, you don't even try. Case ends up freezing it, it's not entertaining (mostly sad) and your life isn't improved by it.

At minimum next time write it up, save it, ignore it for 3 days, re-read it, edit it, maybe get someone to look at it, then come spam a fandom community with your lazy communication.

And seriously go on a self discovering solo holiday or something.

Re: So:

[chardmonster]

but you've been pretty odd this week so I'm ignoring that.

I've barely even been here?

You need to either let it go

Frankly I have. I'm just trying to make sure my friends from stream know my end of the story after he gave his. This is the nuclear option I've been intentionally avoiding.

Every time you do one of these big essay rants/vents you don't learn anything, you don't listen, you don't even try. Case ends up freezing it, it's not entertaining (mostly sad) and your life isn't improved by it.

Okay at this point you're clearly bringing up some argument months ago. I don't even remember the last time I got frozen.

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

"Frankly I have."

*laughs for 20 years*

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

Oi go make your own thread to bother chard with

Re: So:

[chardmonster]

Dude if your definition of letting go is forgetting you have a long life of repeated mistakes ahead of you.

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

Fortnight might be better, the odd slightly more cynical than usual comments. Figured you were having a bad week or something.

Better to let them come to you and ask. People do notice when you up and disappear from something and after a grace period will be "where is chardmonster i miss her comments" or something.

Or make a new account and message them privately.

Probably, I'd say you average a big drama thread every 6-8 months? And each time I want to send you outside for fresh air.

Go....have a cup of tea or something. I don't dislike you, but I also don't see how you don't see what a stupid idea the essay above is. It won't help you get back in and it makes you look irrational/ridiculous. Give it a few weeks then find the (few!) words to politely ask to be let back in. Without insulting anyone.

Re: So:

[chardmonster]

People do notice when you up and disappear from something and after a grace period will be "where is chardmonster i miss her comments" or something.

I really don't believe in doing this intentionally to make people notice my absence--and if I'm taking a break, how would I even see that comment? I'm talking about people I like very much. Why would I treat them like that? I don't want people worrying about me. If I've worried people I'm sorry about that.

About messaging--how do I message people who post anon?

Without insulting anyone.

I don't see where I was insulting. Unless you think the truth is insulting, in which case we agree to disagree.

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

It's happened a few times, not you every time but "where are they now" type threads. Which obviously you wouldn't have seen.

I was referring to your asshole comment in shitstream thread If you didn't mean it that way it kind of came across that way. I can see why you would be banned to get rid of those kinds of comments.

In general, the truth as you see it and the truth of how everyone else sees it is going to differ. Which is where you're gonna really want to work on the wording, the lengthiness, put it away for a day and maybe get someone to review it.

Or you're going to get stuff like this where we're all little floating fish irritated with our little pond being stirred up with shit instead of shitty food and the people you want to chat with aren't likely to notice.