[ SECRET POST #3160 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

....are you being obtuse or do you genuinely tend to take things literally?

We know you have a life, but on FS you're presenting only a small face of it so that's what is going to be associated with you. If you're bitter over something else, say so...or just accept that everyone is going to assume it's over that bitter-causing-thing you HAVE talked about.

We're not mind readers yknow. But we also don't want giant text dumps about this part of your life then be told off for assuming you're upset over what's in the giant text dump.

Re: So:

[chardmonster]

Alright, fine.

In the course of my life many people have been dishonest with me. The one person I thought would always be honest with me was particularly dishonest. This made me hostile for awhile. Life happened, I got better, met people who treated me better, etc, but was still the same sarcastic woman I always was. Ex is touchy and bans me from one of the only places I can talk to friends I made during former relationship. This sucks. I would like to not lose my friends and that's very likely if I can't communicate with them. It is particularly crappy for an ex who knowingly hurt me to then turn around and keep me from said friends because he's afraid I might be upset about said wronging, especially when I'm better.

Does this help?

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

That is much better and much more concise so makes more sense when reading it from an outsider POV. That would have been much better for you to post in OP. It's more honest, more to the point and much easier to understand. Also tugs at the emotions instead of looking like an academic piece.

I would take this bit:

"This sucks. I would like to not lose my friends and that's very likely if I can't communicate with them. It is particularly crappy for an ex who knowingly hurt me to then turn around and keep me from said friends because he's afraid I might be upset about said wronging, especially when I'm better. "

and post that with some tweaking as a comment to noodle or the original post.

An example:

"Hi Noodle. This sucks. I would like to not lose my shitstream friends and that's very likely if I can't communicate with them in your shitstream. You may not realise this, but I feel it is particularly crappy for you to keep me from said friends. I think this is because you're afraid I might be upset about said wronging. If I have said anything recently to make you think this could you let me know? I am feeling better and would appreciate being allowed back in."

Now seriously I got to go sleep good luck.

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

Except this is utter bullshit as everyone that comes to stream posts here using their names. Not to mention you have had over a year to get info to contact these dear dear friends that you apparently only speak to once a week in your exes stream. Grow up. You got called on your crappy comments and clearly he made good on a prior threat to ban you from his steam. and in response you vomited every hurt, slight, and intimate detail to shame him and prove your victimhood. And reading the responses it's pretty clear most of those people you had no way or reaching outside of stream had already been told this whole story by you, so really what you posted was for the rest of us.

Re: So:

[(Anonymous)]

Exactly this.

Re: So:

[chardmonster]

Okay, so if you really think this: who are you from stream?

If you dislike me so much, I'd like to know who you are. I'd told two people. One of those people thought I'd told everyone, which makes me sad.