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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-29 04:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #3160 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Re: So:

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know whether or not Noodle has chosen to ban you from an entire community based on what you stated in a completely different community, but I do think the amount of personal details in your posts is the kind of thing that should stay private. Unless it's directly connected to a public issue that affects a lot of people, airing dirty laundry is not cool. I'm sorry to hear that some bad things happened in your relationship, but it isn't anyone's business but yours (and certainly not the business of any stupid people who assume they know why your relationship ended).

I will say this though--it sounds as though you have about as much respect for him as he does for you. And by that I mean... little to none. You can say how much you miss a person and that you still want them as a friend, but judging from that post, your actions say otherwise. Maybe you didn't mean any harm with your essay, but it doesn't exactly put you in a good light either.

And JMO, if your friends were any friends at all, they would at least attempt to contact you outside of this Shitstream community instead of letting it be the only door to them. Similarly, claiming F!S is your own communication option is a cop-out.

Re: So:

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
*only communication option
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Re: So:

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-08-30 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
Unless it's directly connected to a public issue that affects a lot of people, airing dirty laundry is not cool.

It's not cool and I'd rather not--except that my way to communicate with people was taken from me. I really do mean that; it isn't a cop-out. There are people in stream who mainly post anon, and I don't know their tumblr if they even have one. I don't spread my facebook around so it's not as if that's an option.

It's "dirty laundry," yeah. But it's mine. Frankly... as the victim here I think I own the copyright. You might disagree.
Edited 2015-08-30 04:12 (UTC)

Re: So:

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
Oh shut up. You are just starting to start shit. You ADMIT it isn't cool, but you did it anyways.
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Re: So:

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-08-30 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
I think we have different definitions of cool.

Re: So:

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-30 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
Implying we don't communicate outside shitstream.