[ SECRET POST #3160 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Comments

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

It's not the drama that bothers me. People are human.

It's how the drama is being handled.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

+3

Drama fine. Upset after break ups. Fine.

Handling it like this? Not fine. If you look at all the tldr threads, it's all about people offering advice on different ways to handle it.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know. Defending yourself when you feel you've been wrongfully banned/treated seems fine to me, but a bunch of anons whining that they don't care about drama they chose to read just comes off as ridiculous.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[raspberryrain]

+1

She even warned us.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

+2

The condescension's making my stomach turn actually.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

EXACTLY. Don't like it, don't read it.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

It's not a matter of not liking it and not reading it. It's a matter of thinking it's an inappropriate thing to do that deserves being called out. Was Noodles appropriate in his behavior (presuming everything Chard says is true)? No. And he deserves to be called out. But there's a difference between Chard personally calling him out for being shitty and Chard airing dirty (private) laundry in public.

And before you start giving me the pot-meet-kettle routine, Chard's the one that made this public, hence the public calling out.

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[world_eater]

+4

Re: So I've been banned from Shitstream.

[(Anonymous)]

I sympathize with chard. She was not treated well. That doesn't mean I agree with what she's doing.

Kitchen sink arguments (throwing everything out there but the kitchen sink) and gaslighting are so closely related--they're both a way to cast a bad light on the other person while making oneself appear entirely innocent in a bad situation. Tell me, what does Noodle's cheating have to do with the fact that she was banned? Absolutely nothing. Just like the rest of their relationship, nobody needs to know about it, or at least, the general public doesn't.